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$47.99
A short, soft, girthy silicone dildo with a wide base and harness compatibility, explicitly safe for anal play.
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AT A GLANCE
PLEASURE STANDARD REVIEW
They/Them delivers a fuller feel in a comparatively short, soft silicone shape. That trade-off makes it more specialized than its approachable length first suggests.
Review status: original desk-researched editorial assessment, informed by the linked outside evidence; not independently hands-on tested by Pleasure Standard.
The relatively compact insertable length combines with a broad diameter and soft silicone to offer a different choice from longer, slimmer designs.
Wash thoroughly and apply water-based lubricant. Check the flared base or harness fit, begin at a comfortable angle and avoid assuming its short length makes the girth beginner-friendly.
People who favor a substantial diameter without extra length and want a soft harness-compatible silicone design.
Tantus currently specifies a 1.75-inch diameter and five-inch insertable length; the catalog's 1.6-inch diameter should be checked and corrected. Softness does not remove size-related comfort limits.
Compare a supported stable angle with a correctly fitted harness arrangement. The softer silicone will flex somewhat, so deliberate control and correct base positioning matter more than increasing force.
HOW TO USE IT
Practical guidance based on available product specifications and category-level considerations. We do not claim firsthand testing unless independently verified.
Use the published dimensions, material, intended use and experience level as fit signals. Comfort and control matter more than reaching any maximum depth or size.
Short, soft and fuller-girth silicone dildo for vaginal, anal or pegging use, with a broad stable base and harness compatibility.
Use compatible lubricant and begin slowly. The ultra-soft silicone adds flexibility, but the 1.6-in diameter still makes girth the main fit consideration.
Handheld use gives the best control over the short 5-in insertable length. The broad base can also be used with compatible harnesses.
Verified insertable length is 5 in. Use only the portion that remains comfortable and controlled.
Verified diameter is 1.6 in., approximately 5.0 in. circumference. That fuller profile is better suited to users already comfortable with moderate girth.
The softer silicone can feel more forgiving than a rigid toy at the same diameter while still providing a fuller, pressure-focused sensation.
For anal use, keep the broad base external, use plenty of lubricant and do not treat softness as a reason to force a fit that feels too large.
The Tantus They/Them is a short, flexible silicone dildo built around a fuller 1.6-inch diameter. Its softer construction and wide base make it useful for controlled anal, vaginal or harness play.
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